Dear Nancy Desire,

Am confused,  I am in love with my best friend’s ex boyfriend, I didn’t know how it happened but my feelings for him is really strong. I don’t want to hurt my best friend but I really love  this guy and I think he has feelings for me too. Please what do I do?


Dear Anonymous,

This is a very tough question and at the end of the day you will be the one to make your final decision. You need to choose between your friendship and your love. And for each one you choose has consequences. It’s not a bad thing to be in love, that’s why it’s called falling, you fell so no control.
I know it’s against the girl code to date your best friends ex, but it all depends on how long ago they broke up, what happened during their relationship, and if the boy has mutual feelings for you.

You should know the kind of person your best friend is and what they are capable of.I really wish I got more information about the situation. Tell your best friend about it and see her reaction first.
I Am a girl who loves love and I know that you should follow your heart. And be with who you love, you might end up losing your friendship, so know if it is worth it.
Sweetheart it’s up to you to make the final decision. Follow your heart.


Nancy Desire Nwankwo

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