Many people around the world confuse love and sex to mean the same thing. Love has been confused for so many things some people say it’s a beautiful feeling others say it’s magical. Love can be defined by anyone according to their understanding.
If you read the book of 1st Corinthians 13 you will clearly understand what love means. Never confuse love for infatuation for love and there is no such thing as love at first sight,love grows,love is like a child when nurtured and taken care of it grows. Love is more than a beautiful feeling
Now let me give you my definition of love according to this topic”love is when you take away sex,kissing,and petting from a relationship and you are still crazy about each other.
Let’s not forget that understanding love takes maturity, it doesn’t take age to love but the maturity of one’s mind. Love has so many qualities you can’t say you love if you are not patient,unselfish,caring,and sacrificial.Note that love is unconditional.
Note that sex is a gift from God given to a man and a woman and should only be opened after the exchange of marital vows. Sex is not dirty or evil, it is beautiful.
According to the Oxford Advanced Learners Dictionary sex is defined as a physical activity between two people in which they touch each others sexual organs and which may include sexual intercourse.
The Longman Dictionary also defines it as an activity which two people do together to produce babies or for pleasure, combining and mixing of genetic tracts, often resulting in the specialization of organisms into a male and female variety.
Please note that sex is very important in a relationship but it is not the only thing that builds a relationship.
Books, movies and music has twisted our minds into believing that having sex is the key thing in a relationship if that’s so, why all the break-ups and divorce. Romantic book makes you feel that when you have sex with someone, they fall in love with you and you live happily ever after.
Open your eyes that is fiction this is the real world. Women end up suffering when it comes to this, they are emotional when it comes to sex they quickly believe that they are in love and if the love is not returned it turns into heart-break.
facts about love and sex
- sexual attraction is not love
- you can sleep with someone you despise.
- sex is not love and never will be
- women are more emotional than men when it is concerned
- Real love doesn’t demand sex as evidence
- sex is not air so you can live without it
- it is much more dangerous than love
- you can’t make someone love you by having sex with him/her
A relationship built on sexual attraction will crumble faster than you can say “Jack Robinson”. Ladies any man who is asking you for sex to prove your love is not worth your time. What if you get pregnant and he leaves you? Are you ready to become a single mom, can you live with the fact that you aborted your baby or that you gave him away at birth or can you keep lying to your child that his father is dead. It’s not worth it.
That’s why I recommend it in marriage only. A man who truly loves you will never ask you to do something you don’t want to do. Don’t forget that sexual desire is not an evidence of love. Sit down and think, after giving it to him does he stay with you forever? Before deciding to give it up in a relationship think about the consequences, about your self and your future and make show that is what you want
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