Is sex a prove of love?
Many people around the world confuse love and sex to mean the same thing. Love has been confused for so many things some people say it’s a beautiful feeling others say it’s magical. Love can be defined by anyone according to their understanding. If you read the book of 1st Corinthians 13 you will clearly understand what love means. Never confuse love for infatuation, love is like a child when nurtured grows. Love is more than a beautiful feeling.
Now let me give you my definition of love according to this topic “love is when you take away sex, kissing and petting from a relationship and you are still crazy about each other. Let’s not forget that understanding love takes maturity, and maturity is not age. Love has so many qualities you can’t say you love if you are not patient,unselfish,caring,and sacrificial.
According to the Oxford Advanced Learners Dictionary sex is defined as a physical activity between two people in which they touch each others sexual organs and which may include sexual intercourse. Please note that sex is very important in a relationship but it is not the only thing that builds a relationship. Books, movies and music has twisted our minds into believing that having sex is the key thing in a relationship if that’s so, why all the break-ups and divorce. Romantic books makes you feel that when you have sex with someone, they fall in love with you and you live happily ever after. Open your eyes that is fiction,this is the real world. Women end up suffering when it comes to this, they are emotional when it comes to sex they quickly believe that they are in love and if the love is not returned it turns into heart-break.
facts about love and sex
- sexual attraction is not love
- you can sleep with someone you despise.
- sex is not love and never will be.
- women are more emotional than men when it is concerned.
- Real love doesn’t demand sex as evidence.
- sex is not air so you can live without it.
- you can’t make someone love you by having sex with him/her.
A relationship built on sexual attraction will crumble faster than you can say “Jack Robinson”. Ladies any man who is asking you for sex to prove your love is not worth your time. What if you get pregnant and he leaves you? Are you ready to become a single mom, can you live with the fact that you aborted your baby or that you gave him away at birth or can you keep lying to your child that his father is dead. It’s not worth it.
A man who truly loves you will never ask you to do something you don’t want to do. Don’t forget that sexual desire is not an evidence of true love. Before deciding to give it up in a relationship think about the consequences, about your self and your future and make show that is what you want. Please comment below.