Is sex a prove of love?

Many people around the world confuse love and sex to mean the same thing. Love has been confused for so many things some people say it’s a beautiful feeling others say it’s magical. Love can be defined by anyone according to their understanding. If you read the book of 1st Corinthians 13 you will clearly understand what love means. Never confuse love for infatuation, love is like a child when nurtured grows. Love is more than a beautiful feeling.

Now let me give you my definition of love according to this topic “love is when you take away sex, kissing and petting from a relationship and you are still crazy about each other. Let’s not forget that understanding love takes maturity, and maturity is not age. Love has so many qualities you can’t say you love if you are not patient,unselfish,caring,and sacrificial.

Controversial Facts About Sex In Relationships| Nancydesire

According to the Oxford Advanced Learners Dictionary sex is defined as a physical activity between two people in which they touch each others sexual organs and which may include sexual intercourse. Please note that sex is very important in a relationship but it is not the only thing that builds a relationship. Books, movies and music has twisted our minds into believing that having sex is the key thing in a relationship if that’s so, why all the break-ups and divorce. Romantic books makes you feel that when you have sex with someone, they fall in love with you and you live happily ever after. Open your eyes that is fiction,this is the real world. Women end up suffering when it comes to this, they are emotional when it comes to sex they quickly believe that they are in love and if the love is not returned it turns into heart-break.

facts about love and sex

  • sexual attraction is not love
  • you can sleep with someone you despise.
  • sex is not love and never will be.
  • women are more emotional than men when it is concerned.
  • Real love doesn’t demand sex as evidence.
  • sex is not air so you can live without it.
  • you can’t make someone love you by having sex with him/her.

A relationship built on sexual attraction will crumble faster than you can say “Jack Robinson”. Ladies any man who is asking you for sex to prove your love is not worth your time. What if you get pregnant and he leaves you? Are you ready to become a single mom, can you live with the fact that you aborted your baby or that you gave him away at birth or can you keep lying to your child that his father is dead. It’s not worth it.
A man who truly loves you will never ask you to do something you don’t want to do. Don’t forget that sexual desire is not an evidence of true love. Before deciding to give it up in a relationship think about the consequences, about your self and your future and make show that is what you want. Please comment below.


  1. Nice one my dear,just keep it up,and for people that think s*x is love hmmmm be warn about it cause truth about #S*X is open here.

  2. Nice… Its important to also note that pregnancy is not the only consequence that comes out of pre-marital s*x. Spiritually it is not good. It is totally against God’s wish. So we have to be careful.

  3. Nice post Nancy

    According to you, “Doctors recommend sex for married men” what then happen to the unmarried ones? well for me, I don’t think it’s necessary that Doctors should be recommending S*x to anybody. we all different from each other.

    Well it’s good for those who can cope but for me I don’t think it’s POSSIBLE!!

  4. Wow to be sincere i really enjoy the post.

    Yes s*x is not love but it is in some relationship its love because some men can’t live without it.

    Doctors always advise us we men to s*x at least ones in a week, so in this condition what should we do? Because i can’t have a girl friend and be going to ashawo place naa.

  5. Wow! What an insightful article about love and s*x in a relationship. Giving a guy s*x to prove your love for him is very dangerouse probable you can be pregnant and what do you think? You think he’ll help you carry the baby for nine months or what. Guys won’t have lot of problems if the case arises the whole thing affects the lady nagatively.

    Thanks for sharing such a wonderful article Ma.

  6. Nice article but what if the both parties in a relationship agrees to have sex and they see sex as love even when they arent married…? is sex then still negetive?

    • Nancy the article was good, but there is something i would like to ask, what if in d case dat the one the parties just feel s*xually active, described as being on heat. What should the other do ?????

      • @tunde thanks for reading. Note that before you get into a relationship that you need to have discussed with your partner whether or not to have s*x and if you decided not to have s*x then you and your partner should learn how to control the urge. I hope i have answered your question

    • Nice article! But there is something i would like to ask u, have u ever seen or heard abt marriage without pregnancy not to talk child or children? Let me give u a story of my own uncle, exactly what u said here, his wife denied him s*x b4 marriage n they married for 16yrs without a child as a result of that they visited so many churches along d line d wife became sick n died, when she was abt to die she told her husband to marry immediately if he didn’t see her again n he should not make d same mistake he made on her. He mourned her for one, met a lady, they started dating. I know Nancy will like to know what happened, well, d same year they met she became pregnant n put to bed a bouncing baby boy. To be honest with u, things are no more d way it use to be. As it is, I know abt 5 couples yet to hear a cry of a baby after 13, 15, 17 yrs of marriage but we r still praying for them. Let me not bore u with this till we meet again.

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