Below is a Guest post.
Does Relationship have Value?
When we generally talk about relationship(s), there is a lot that goes into it. There are very any types of relationships that one can have depending on who the other person is. The most basic one is a family. Since everybody is born from a mother and a father, that becomes their first relationships to have in life. And in life this being the most basic one, it paves way to all the other ones. From the family, one can learn how to relate with others and build relationships with them. The major thing being how to love other people up from loving and being loved by your parents.
There are many ways in which one can define a family. The most important one is loving and caring. When two people come together to build a relationship, the major thing there is love and care that is then transferred to the children once they come into the equation. This love is seen through the family be it nuclear or extended family. Regardless of what the relationship is, the fact that you are part of the family requires you to have love and show it to the rest of the member of the family. This way, it feels like one.
- Communication as a basic ingredient in any relationship
In any family, there is one major factor that will ensure everyone is happy and the love that is there never goes away no matter what. Well definitely there will be times when there are problems in the family and you need to deal with it so that you can move forward. You will also need to be able deal with the trouble from the kids in love so that there is no trouble there. The main thing to have in mind is to always know that communication is the best way out. This is one way you will know what the problem is and how to deal with it. Ensure that your family understands the positive outcomes of being able to communicate with each other whether they are hurt or are happy. This way, you will be part of a very happy family. There is a saying that says. This is the most basic component that you can use to work through anything as a family and to build up that relationship. No matter the culture or the place you are in, communication has been proved to be very helpful.
- The different types of relationships.
In life there are very many types of relationships. As much as they all stem from family, they are also very dynamic and they all involve different people. Apart from family, there are other people who you will meet in life and will end up being very close to. These are people like best friends, spouses among many others. All these people become a major part of you and you end up building your life around them. The love between these people differs depending on the dynamics of the relationships. The way you relate with your family would not be the same way you will relate with your best friend or your spouse.
- The strength of different relationships
The strength of a relationship is found in the core values it is built on. The main core should always be love. Without love in any relationship, there is bound to be problems. This way, the main thing which every relationship should have is love. From here, it can be very easy to work through the rest and make it better with each passing day. This way other values such as care and trust can be easily integrated and made part of it. With time this relationships will grow and flourish. In this cases you will find that the people in them long to be with each other as they grow together. If this is not the case in a relationship, the people in it should strive to make it so because these are the major values that will propel a relationship.
Relationships are very important in life. As human beings, we are social beings hence cannot survive alone. Therefore surrounding yourself with people you love and who love you back is very important and will grow you over time. This adds some goodness into life that will keep you going for a longer time.
Kingsley Felix is a Blogger and Webmaster for Healthable, a Health and Wellness blog. Kingsley is also a web developer/designer.