One of the things that makes teenage years exciting is suddenly finding out that you are attracted to the opposite sex
especially the one’s you made fun. And This brings up the subject of dating. Please note that the desire to associate with the
opposite sex is very natural.This might sound funny but most teens don’t know anything about dating. That’s why am here to
what is a date:
A date is pre-arranged
time spent with a person of the
opposite sex. You can have a
single,double or group date. But as a
teenager i recommend you start with
group dating[ie when several couples get together], after that double
dating before you can now go on a
single date. This would make things easier and less
Dating helps you learn to get along and
feel at ease with the opposite sex
Dating helps you handle situations and
how to grow and nature in your
relationships with others
Dating helps you to learn more about
your self and others Dating helps you in choosing a life
DANGERS OF DATING
Remember that everything that has an
advantage will most likely have a
disadvantage. As a young person any
decision you take now can destroy your
future. Some teens aren’t ready for
rejection and this could hurt their self-esteem. you should be cautious
recommend”blind dating”this is
dangerous and can cause harm to a
teenager. It’s important you date people
you know either from school, or church or
even your neighbourhood. And when you date some whose religious beliefs are
quite different from yours could cause
And most teenage dating are
violent. Many young teenage girls suffer
this. how to ask and accept a date So many teenagers want to date but are
afraid to approach the person.
I recommend that the teenage boy making
the first move and not the female.
Although female teenagers do
For the guys:
You can either walk up to her with confidence or
give her a call, be courteous and polite. Don’t ask a girl what she is doing on
that day, just ask her out and be sure
to tell her where the date will take
place so she can know what to wear
and tell her parents.
But if a girl refuses your invitation accept it
gracefully and say”maybe we can go
another time” remember that you don’t
have any right to insist that a girl explain
why she is turning down your
invitation.Just move on it might be for the best.
One of the biggest mistakes teen girls is been rude
and looking down on a boy who asks
They might never know what
he will be in future they might end up
putting their life in danger.
Don’t get me
wrong am not saying that you should accept every date. But to politely reject
his invitation with a smile on your face,
saying“I’m sorry but I can’t go but I appreciate you asking me”Never break a date for “something better”that
come along later” I Know we all hate this
but please make sure your guardian or
parents know where you are going and
with who. Note that going on one date doesn’t
make you an exclusive couple.
recommend teens to start going
steady. Everyone must not date.So don’t feel like
an outcast or the world is coming to an
Concentrate on your relationship
with God as well as your studies.
funny how people have twisted dating.
Dating is a period you use to know someone before getting into a serious
You never really know a
person from hours of “making out” or from
conversation like this
“I love you” i love
i think your eyes are pretty”i like
your eyes too”
When you are on a date try not to talk about your self all the time
also get to know the other person. It’s
also good to tell your date your are
enjoying your self. But don’t lie.
if you are always handing out kisses on
your first dates”STOP IT”or it will become
cheap and meaningless”A kiss should be
something special, reserved for someone
DATING RULES FOR TEENS
Dating can be fun and exciting but as a
teenager you need rules to guide you so
as not to make life changing mistakes.
And The Rules Are
set your standards and stick to it no
matter what have a curfew even your parents,don’t
have any. It’s dangerous driving around
in the middle of the night never park in a car “just to talk”this very
dangerous in more way than one.
Don’t engage in petting:petting is like
marijuana and it leads to stronger stuff.
As a young person dating is not about
petting it’s about grooming your
personality. Never trade your body for
someone’s company that’s a poor bargain
Do not tease:please remember that you
are on a date to get to know a person.
And not to awaken their sexual desire
which you can not fulfill.
Guard your mind:
never watch pornography
or read sexy magazines or books before a date this can lead to something else
which can cost a lot
BE CAREFUL WHEN CHOOSING YOUR
please don’t go out with any man
you have not introduced to your parents.
Most especially someone you don’t feel
comfortable with or someone your father or brother are strongly against. Men know
WATCH YOUR DRESSING:
I know you
don’t want to come up as slut on your
first date or in any date at all. You might
unknowingly led the young man into thinking all sorts and this can lead to
rape if you refuse to agree.
DON’T WALK INTO TEMPTATION WITH
YOUR EYES WIDE OPEN:
Never stay in s
secluded place with the opposite sex or
go on a date to his house alone. MAKE SURE TO HAVE YOUR MONEY
AND CELLPHONE WITH YOU IN CASE
GET SOME HARD EXERCISE EVERY
DAY: this would help get your mind off
sex and control your urge so you don’t
pounce on the poor girl.
LOOK AT YOUR POCKET: one major mistakes teen guys make is trying to
show off. Make sure you know how much
money you are with before going on a
BE NICE AND POLITE:Don’t force your
date to do what she does not want to do. Treat your date the way you want
someone else to treat your future wife.
NEVER PUT IDEAS INTO A GIRLS MIND
IF YOU ARE NOT READY TO GO
STEADY. One big mistake teens make is thinking
of going steady after one date.the proper
age to go on a date is 16years. DON’T
RUSH INTO DATING ITS NOT A DO OR
DIE AFFAIR .