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Controversial Facts About S*x In Relationships

Is S*x a prove of love?

Many people around the world confuse love and S*x to mean the same thing.

Love has been confused for so many things some people say it’s a beautiful feeling others say it’s magical. Love can be defined by anyone according to their understanding.

If you read the book of 1st corinthians13 you will clearly understand what love means. Never confuse love for infatuation for love and there is no such thing as love at first sight,love grows, love is like a child when nurtured and taken care of it grows. You can only be attracted to someone at first sight. Love is more than a beautiful feeling

Now let me give you my own definition of love according to this topic“love is when you take away S*x,kissing,and petting from a relationship and you are still crazy about each other.


let’s not forget that understanding love takes maturity, it doesn’t take age to love but the maturity of one’s mind.

Love has so many qualities you can’t say you love if you are not patient,unselfish,caring,and sacrificial.

Note that love is unconditional.
S*x is something that many people are afraid to talk about.

Note that S*x is a gift from God given to a man and a woman and should only be opened after the exchange of marital vows. S*x is not dirty or evil, S*x is beautiful ,

it was created by God to help marriages progress.

According to the Oxford Advanced Learners Dictionary S*x is defined as a physical activity between two people in which they touch each others sexual organs and which may include sexual intercourse.

The Longman Dictionary also defines it as an activity which two people do together to produce babies or for pleasure, combining and mixing of genetic tracts, often resulting in the specialization of organisms into a male and female variety.

Please note that S*x is very important in a relationship but S*x is not a relationship. Books, movies and music has twisted our minds into believing that having S*x is the key thing in a relationship if that’s so, why all the break-ups and divorce. Romantic books makes you feel that when you have S*x with someone, they fall in love with you and you live happily ever after.

Open your eyes that is fiction this is the real world. Women end up suffering when it comes to this, they are emotional when it comes to S*x they quickly believe that they are in love and if the love is not returned it turns into heart break.

facts about love and S*x

sexual attraction is not love
you can have S*x with someone you despise.
S*x is not love and never will be
women are more emotional than men during S*x
Real love doesn’t demand S*x as evidence
S*x is not food so you can live without it
S*x is much more dangerous than love

you can’t make someone love by having S*x

A relationship built on sexual attraction will crumble faster than you can say “Jack Robinson”.

Ladies any man that is asking you for S*x to prove your love is only trying to destroy you. Now what if you get pregnant and he leaves you? Are you ready to become a single mom, can you live with the fact that you aborted your baby or that you gave him away at birth or can you keep lying to your child that his father is dead. It’s not worth it.

That’s why i recommend S*x in marriage only. A man that truly loves you will never ask you to do something you don’t want to do. Don’t forget that sexual desire is not an evidence of love. Sit down and think, after giving him S*x does he stay with you forever? Before accepting to have S*x in a relationship think about the consequences, about your self and your future and make show that is what you want

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29 Comments

  • Reply
    OSHEYtv
    June 19, 2017 at 11:09 pm

    WOW.. YOU are so brilliant..

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    Matrix
    July 5, 2015 at 8:22 am

    #Nice #Blog

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    chibuzor uzor
    May 23, 2015 at 10:20 pm

    Nice one my dear,just keep it up,and for people that think s*x is love hmmmm be warn about it cause truth about #S*X is open here.

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    Nnamdi Komputa
    November 29, 2014 at 3:01 am

    Nice… Its important to also note that pregnancy is not the only consequence that comes out of pre-marital s*x. Spiritually it is not good. It is totally against God’s wish. So we have to be careful.

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    Owilly Oscar
    October 9, 2014 at 1:01 pm

    Nice post Nancy

    According to you, “Doctors recommend S*x for married men” what then happen to the unmarried ones? well for me, I don’t think it’s necessary that Doctors should be recommending S*x to anybody. we all different from each other.

    Well it’s good for those who can cope but for me I don’t think it’s POSSIBLE!!

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      Nancy Desire Nwankwo
      September 25, 2016 at 3:58 am

      Oscar it is possible
      It just a thing of the mind
      And yes we are all different
      And it’s up to you to know whether you
      Want to have S*x or not
      Thanks for your comment

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    Samuel
    August 26, 2014 at 12:44 am

    Wow to be sincere i really enjoy the post.

    Yes s*x is not love but it is in some relationship its love because some men can’t live without it.

    Doctors always advise us we men to s*x at least ones in a week, so in this condition what should we do? Because i can’t have a girl friend and be going to ashawo place naa.

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      Nancy Desire Nwankwo
      September 9, 2014 at 9:45 am

      i want you to understand that s*x is not food. Doctors recommend s*x for married men. Not young boys and girls. And you can control s*x urge if you put your mind to it.

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      Nancy Desire Nwankwo
      September 25, 2016 at 4:03 am

      i want you to understand that s*x is not food. Doctors recommend s*x for married men. Not young boys and girls. And you can control s*x urge if you put your mind to it.
      Samuel thank you for your comment and opinion

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    Larry Frank
    August 25, 2014 at 9:32 pm

    Wow! What an insightful article about love and s*x in a relationship. Giving a guy s*x to prove your love for him is very dangerouse probable you can be pregnant and what do you think? You think he’ll help you carry the baby for nine months or what. Guys won’t have lot of problems if the case arises the whole thing affects the lady nagatively.

    Thanks for sharing such a wonderful article Ma.

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      Nancy Nwankwo
      September 9, 2014 at 9:40 am

      @larry frank thanks for your contribution i really appreciate it

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    francis michael
    July 11, 2014 at 9:35 am

    Luv d topic bcos d world nw ar facin wat dey neva planned 4 all in d name of prove it 2mi by avin s*x wit mi

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    ENE
    July 5, 2014 at 1:16 pm

    Nice article but what if the both parties in a relationship agrees to have S*x and they see S*x as love even when they arent married…? is S*x then still negetive?

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      Nancy Desire Nwankwo
      July 6, 2014 at 6:54 am

      @ENE Thanks for your question . I personally recommend S*x only in marriage. Even if you and your partner decide to have S*x in your relationship. There are lots of consequences like pregnancy. I guess you can’t handle that now. And lot’s of guilt and fear. So i would advise you to hold your self untill you are married. NO ONE HAS S*x ONLY ONCE BECAUSE IT IS ADDICTIVE.

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        Tunde
        August 5, 2014 at 12:23 pm

        Nancy the article was good, but there is something i would like to ask, what if in d case dat the one the parties just feel s*xually active, described as being on heat. What should the other do ?????

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          Nancy Desire Nwankwo
          August 21, 2014 at 7:53 am

          @tunde thanks for reading. Note that before you get into a relationship that you need to have discussed with your partner whether or not to have s*x and if you decided not to have s*x then you and your partner should learn how to control the urge. I hope i have answered your question

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          Nancy Desire Nwankwo
          September 25, 2016 at 4:06 am

          tunde thanks for reading. Note that before you get into a relationship that you need to have discussed with your partner whether or not to have s*x and if you decided not to have s*x then you and your partner should learn how to control the urge. I hope i have answered your question

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      Nancy Desire Nwankwo
      September 25, 2016 at 4:05 am

      ENE Thanks for your question . I personally recommend S*x only in marriage. Even if you and your partner decide to have S*x in your relationship. There are lots of consequences like pregnancy. I guess you can’t handle that now. And lot’s of guilt and fear. So i would advise you to hold your self untill you are married. NO ONE HAS S*x ONLY ONCE BECAUSE IT IS ADDICTIVE.

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    mubitecth
    July 3, 2014 at 12:15 pm

    Nancy you are really on point with this content, love should never be confuse for S*x.

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    Trevor Polfer
    March 7, 2014 at 5:17 am

    Perfectly pent content material, Really enjoyed reading.

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    dah manii
    February 12, 2014 at 5:36 pm

    U re good

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      uch
      May 24, 2015 at 7:00 am

      Nice article! But there is something i would like to ask u, have u ever seen or heard abt marriage without pregnancy not to talk child or children? Let me give u a story of my own uncle, exactly what u said here, his wife denied him s*x b4 marriage n they married for 16yrs without a child as a result of that they visited so many churches along d line d wife became sick n died, when she was abt to die she told her husband to marry immediately if he didn’t see her again n he should not make d same mistake he made on her. He mourned her for one, met a lady, they started dating. I know Nancy will like to know what happened, well, d same year they met she became pregnant n put to bed a bouncing baby boy. To be honest with u, things are no more d way it use to be. As it is, I know abt 5 couples yet to hear a cry of a baby after 13, 15, 17 yrs of marriage but we r still praying for them. Let me not bore u with this till we meet again.

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      Nancy Desire Nwankwo
      September 25, 2016 at 4:07 am

      Thank you dear
      ????

    so what do you think?